Dating a 40 year old
"), or imply that it's all about sex ("You sly devil, you!
"), or warn you that unless this is a fling you'll wind up "lonely, poor or both." Does that just about describe the level of "support" you're receiving?
This is why it ended up being number one on our list of top 40 plus dating sites.
It is probably one of the largest sites of the kind on the Internet, which is still active after so many years.
It managed to tap in the online dating markets of many countries, putting together a very impressive user database. Friends say you're "infatuated" — why can't they see you're in love?They may impugn the motives of the younger person ("Gold digger!I told her that if he is nice and mature I dont' see a problem.
The way I see it there are 40 year old men who are committment phobes and very immature so if she finds a 25 year old who she likes what is wrong with that.
She's at the end of her reproductive cycle and he's at the age where people are starting to consider long-term relationships, marriage, kids. My ex-husband was 12 years older than me, and although he was young and trendy in spirit, dress, manner, he always felt like the "old guy" around my friends, because he'd 'been there and done that' with a lot of life experiences.