Dating etiquette call after first date
He walks in, and the sparks begin to fly immediately. By evening you start to analyze whether you revealed too much, or too little. You're still not sure if you should accept other offers to do things this weekend. The Dating Gurus are betting if you've been dating for a while then you've gone through post-date misery more than a few times.Conversation flows easily, and maybe you even move on from your meeting spot to dinner or to walk around town. At the end of the date he tells you he had a good time, that you're prettier than your pictures, and that he'll call you. You review in excruciating detail what you said, what he he said. Maybe you shouldn't have told him about that bad date you had two weeks ago. You go out with your friends after work and drink too much wine. You force yourself to the gym to get your mind off him. Perhaps a better question to ask yourself: Why I would let myself waste all that mental and emotional energy, assuming blame for a dead-end date?However, in real life, calling up the next day, after the date, is perfectly fine.
We women spend too much time analyzing, make excuses about, or rationalizing men's dating behavior. At 4 pm, you get a text from him, telling you that he had a nice time too, and he hopes you have a great weekend.
Playing "First-Phone-Call Chicken"So now that we’ve taken care of how you make the call, you may be asking who should make the first call?