Dating larger man
READ MORE: What Do You Do When Your Friend Says She’s Fat?I’ll be the first to admit that I am vain; when I can’t fit into a beloved outfit I was planning to wear because of my weight, I get upset.You can ride them for as long as you want without a single bruise afterwards. He'll probably even high five you, like "That's my girl!" Not to mention that he probably won't notice if you gain a couple of pounds either.I can get so hung up on a clothing size that I’ll buy a less flattering but lower number to make myself feel better.I’ve even shied away from attending events when I felt I was simply “too fat” to fit into any of my clothes.
We have to be skinny, but not too skinny, wear make up but look natural, the list goes on.
But once we started dating, the kind of fat talk I’d regularly engaged in about myself, usually silently, wouldn’t cut it. When I feel like a failure about my body, that extends into other arenas, making me less enthusiastic about my writing, sure that, somehow, other people are making those same judgments.