I am dating an older man
Two years earlier, my relationship of nearly a decade ended.
At 33, I found it much harder to meet men than it had been in my early twenties.
hello i need some advice i have a boyfriend im dating online hes older than me by ten years and he is a guy anygirl would want i really love him and it seems that he does too we have plans that when i turn 18 and i leave my house he is going to come for me and we will live in a house as a couple yes i told him marriage before sex and he is tottaly okay with that but he and i have never met in person he knows how i look( im a curvy girl) and he accepts that and alot of other things i told him hes sent pic of him but they are never live hes told me stuff like his camera dont work and hes getting a phone upgrade in a week or so but i dont know if this is real or fake i love him as much as he tells me he loves me i feel that he is a very honest guy because he writes me allot of lovely notes and we know our schedules already but he lives in the uk and i live in tx is this going somewhere or not.
Even if they may not open up straight away, they have more of a tendency to take their time to gather their feelings and maturely sit down with you and discuss the matter in hand.
I thanked him for his interest, but let him know that that wouldn't be happening. He asked me to reconsider and retain “an open mind.” I felt frustration and anger boil up inside me as I looked at this man three decades my senior, who had manipulated me into a meeting under false pretences and then dismissed my refusal of his advances as close-minded. Instead, I ignored his emails until he finally gave up.
Men in general tend to have difficulty in communicating their feelings, but older men understand it's importance and take the time to try and discuss things with you.
Almost to the extent where they help you develop who you are and come out of your shell to find your true identity.
As they have already lived a lot they are ready for you to turn too when and if you need to.
They have lived their youth and freedom and therefore have more of a tendency to want to settle down and meet the one.
Their values have also changed, and they will spend more time showing you how much they care than saying it. They may have already loved and lost, been through divorce or even have children from a previous relationship meaning they are more respectful and understanding of ex's.